The toughest age for boys is from 19 to 24

Its the time where boys finish their undergraduate and most of their friends get their job using their family influence and the middle class ones are the ones who are most probably searching for the job. not to mention about their adolescent where they look for their opposite gender so they would be feeling more prominent when they are with them.

They are a few exceptional cases where they are concentrated on both studies and on relationships that they maintain and also with the career which they choose so nicely that they wanted to live the life as how they dreamed off.

But 75 % of the people don't take care of themselves or their career and the care about is only the relationship with the opposite gender and they ll be loosing their life and they would be searching for it the entire life. their carrier and their relationship.

Most of the relations wont last for a long time when there is no career for longer duration, and there are many reasons in life why they don't last but they cannot be listed here. Its a one to one situation where they have to make their decisions very carefully and decide their own life.

Most people choose their carrier just like that because of their family or relatives constrains, but there are only a few who ll choose their career in which aspects they are strong at and they tend to balance their life  so that they ll be successful in their life.

Lets come to the scenario of where people have chosen their career for others choice and they have successfully completed their  studies and successful with their relations but they loose their career by caring more on what they need at the time and this comes at the age of 21 to 27 so that they cant concentrate on carrier nor on the relationships. About 50 to 60 % of people tend to loose their carrier in search of their loved ones and finally realize that the loves ones don't be with them when they are unemployed and they finally loose both the essence of life and wander just like that living with the ones whom they don't know and they would probably end up a life as they have not wished to live for.

So its a  wake-up call for you guys if you are capable of balancing both your carrier , studies and relationship and your dreams only then you will be successful.

Please dont join this club !

Your life completely changes after marriage.  We all were irresponsible and carefree children for our parents all these days but once they think we have reached the age for getting married everything around us changes once for all. My goodness! they want you to be responsible and want you to look good before their friends and relatives.  How can they expect us to change the attitude with what we have grown all these years to change completely in days? ! But we do dance to their tune. Human is the most ridiculous animal who can change or may be I should call it adapt , I think it may be better said as "the act for survival". This society has also made me one of the ridiculous animal just like.
anyother human. Atleast you dont join this club and be as who you are. Please don't join this club.

Back after a long time

Its been a few year's me coming into this blog. I would like to thank google for keeping this spot alive.

I would be posting frequently what all have to be shared to the community.

THIS IS HOW BUSINESS IS DONE

Even if u have nothing, you can get anything , but your attitude should be positive.
Father: I want you to marrry a girl of my choice
Son: I will choose my own bride
Father: But the girl is Bill Gates daughter
Son: Well , in that case.. ok

Next Day Father approaches Bill Gates

Father: I have a husband for your daughter
Bill Gates: But my daughter is too young to marry
Father: But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank
Bill Gates: Ah, in that case ...ok

Father finally goes to see the President of the World Bank

Father: I have a young man to be recommended as vice-president
Presidnet: But I already have more Vice-Presidnets then I need
Father: But this young man is Bill Gates "Son In Law"
President: Ah in that case... ok

THESE THINGS ARE DONE BY INDIANS AFTER RETURNING FROM STATES

* Use Nope for No and Yep for Yes.

* Tries to use credit card in road side hotel.

* Drinks and carries minerals water and always speeks of health conscious.

* Sprays Deo's such that he dosen't need to take bath.

* Sneezes and sys "Excuse me".

* Dosen't forget to crib about air about air pollution. Keeps on cribbing every time he steps out.

* Says all the distances in Miles and counts in Millions (which is noramlly not used in India).

* Tries to figure all the prices in dollars as far as possible but keeps on converting all dollars into rupees.

* Makes fun of Indian Standard Time and Indian Road Conditions.

* Even after 2 months , complaints about "Jet Lag".

* Avoids eating more chili stuff .

* Tries to drink "Diet coke" , instead of normal Coke.

* Complain about anything in India as if he is experiencing it for the first time.

* From the luggage bag, dose not remove the stickers of airways which he travelled back to India, even after months of arrivel.

* Tries to begin conversation with "In US...." or "When I was in US..."

Ordinary People Will Never Do These Sort Of Things

It was a Sports Stadium.Eight Children were standing on the track to participate in a running event.
Ready!
Steady!!
Bang !!!

With the sound of Toy pistol, all eight girls started running. Hardly had they covered ten to fifteen steps, when one of the smaller girls slipped and fell down, due to bruises and pain she started crying. When the other seven girls heard the little girl cry they stopped running, stood for a while and turned back. Seeing the girl on the track they all ran to help, one among them bent down, picked her up and kissed her gently and enquired as to how she was and a lot of questions was asked.

They then lifted the fallen girl pacifying her. Two of them held her firmly while all seven joined hands together and walked together towards the winning post. There was pin drop silence at the spectator's stand, officials were shocked. Slow claps multiplied to thousands as the spectators stood up in appreciation. Many eyes were filled with tears and perhaps even God's! YES.!! This happened in Hyderabad [INDIA], recently!

The sport was conducted by National Institute of Mental Health. All these special girls had come to participate in this event and they were spastic children. Yes, they were Mentally Challenged.
What did they teach the WORLD.?
Teamwork.?
Humanity.?
Equality among all.??
Successful people help others who are slow in learning
So that they are not left far behind.

We never do this because we have brains !!!!

Want to know what LIFE is ????

Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983. From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed...

"Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"????


To this Arthur Ashe replied

The world over -- 50 million children start playing tennis, 5 million learn to play tennis, 500,000 learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, when I was holding a cup I never asked GOD 'Why me?'.
And today in pain I should not be asking GOD 'Why me?'
Happiness keeps you Sweet,
Trials keep you Strong,
Sorrow keeps you Human,
Failure keeps you humble and Success keeps you glowing,
but only Faith & Attitude Keeps you going...

This is LIFE.. what ever happens we have to go in our LIFE Until we live ALIVE...